Knowing Yourself, Growing Yourself

Burnout, identity crises, and constant overthinking — we don’t talk enough about the emotional side of "growing up." This page supports young people in developing self-awareness, managing stress, and finding career paths that align with their mental health and values.

What is Wellbeing?

Wellbeing is more than just feeling “fine” or avoiding stress — it’s about feeling balanced, connected, and fulfilled in different areas of life. It includes your emotional, physical, mental, and even social health. When your wellbeing is strong, you’re better able to manage life’s challenges, form healthy relationships, and feel a sense of purpose.

Wellbeing doesn’t mean being happy all the time. It means having the tools and support to cope with hard days, understand your emotions, and take care of your mind and body. It’s personal and looks different for everyone — for some, it’s quiet time alone; for others, it’s community, creativity, or structure. Prioritising wellbeing isn’t selfish — it’s how we stay grounded and grow.


Signs of Burnout and Emotional Fatigue. 

Burnout isn’t just about being tired — it’s a deep emotional and mental exhaustion that builds up over time, especially when you're overwhelmed, overworked, or emotionally drained. Signs of burnout include constant fatigue, feeling disconnected or numb, loss of motivation, irritability, brain fog, and even physical symptoms like headaches or sleep problems. You might feel like you’re going through the motions or like nothing you do is ever enough. Emotional fatigue can make it hard to care, focus, or show up — even for things you normally enjoy. If this sounds familiar, it’s not weakness — it’s a sign that your body and mind need rest and care.


Self-Awareness: Personality & Triggers.

Self-awareness means understanding who you are — your emotions, patterns, reactions, and needs. It includes knowing your personality style, your values, what gives you energy, and what drains you. Triggers are situations or behaviours that cause strong emotional reactions, like anxiety, anger, or shame. Recognising your triggers helps you respond rather than react. By getting curious about your inner world — journaling, reflecting, or exploring personality tools (like the 16Personalities test or sensory profiles) — you become better at setting boundaries, managing emotions, and making choices that align with who you truly are.


Mental Health and Career Alignment. 

The kind of work you do — and how you do it — has a huge impact on your mental health. If your job or studies constantly push you into burnout, pressure you to mask your true self, or leave no room for rest or creativity, it can damage your well-being. Career alignment means choosing paths that match your natural strengths, interests, and energy patterns. For some, that’s a structured 9-to-5; for others, it’s creative work, flexibility, or a mix of social and solo time. There’s no one “right” job — but asking, “Does this work for my mind and values?” is a powerful place to start.


Daily Check-in Tools & Mindfulness. 

A daily mental check-in helps you pause and ask: How am I feeling today? What do I need? You can use simple tools like mood trackers, self-care wheels, or one-word journals. Mindfulness means slowing down and being present, without judgment, even if just for a few minutes a day. It can be done through breathing, quiet sitting, walking, or simply noticing your surroundings. These small practices help you stay connected to yourself, reduce stress, and make more intentional choices. Even 3 minutes of stillness a day can shift your mindset.


Recommended Resources

PositivePsychology: Self-Awareness Exercise 

Self-Care Wheel by Olega Phoenix

Destiny's Odyssey: Self-Awareness PDF

Every mind Matters (NHS Mind Plan)

ICS Learn: Workplace Wellbeing

Mindfulness for Beginners Toolkit - PositivePsychology

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